When You need to use the mantra, You should give the individual one thing to take in. This merchandise has to be certain [abhimintrit] by this mantra by holding a little something edible and chanting the mantra. ॐ खां ग्‍याम ग्‍याह महुम पति/पत्निं वश्यम् कुरुह कुरु स्वाहा: Right after Siddhi, https://www.facebook.com/share/1J6iVuTuXb/